Day 207 - Of a Girl and Her Brother's Hound Dog


My parents' new home is part of a community.  You know, those communities that have age limits from below and do all the landscaping and snow shoveling for you.  It just so happens that their backyard looks out onto a nice little pond.  It is very peaceful.  More peaceful than the road our back yard looks out to, but that is neither here nor there.

It has been a relatively quiet summer.  Well, that is unless Murphy is howling.  The picture above is Murphy, my brother's hound dog/beagle mix.  I think he is more coon hound than beagle.  Needless to say, the neighbors are okay with it - but sometimes the Murph-dog's howling can be a bit annoying.

Let us get to the juicy stuff.  I was glad Murphy is staying with my parents.  Why not my brother?  Well, Murphy is there to participate in the Parental Unit run Dog Weight-loss Summer Camp.  By the way, it has been quite effective.  I felt so horrible leaving Silvio at some other boarding place it felt good to have another dog around.

While I was there, the Canadian geese arrived at the pond.  There were a total of 23 of them.  They arrived mid-morning on the day of my goddaughter's christening.  We returned from the christening to find that the geese had made themselves at home.  They were eating and pooping and swimming and pooping.  Doing whatever they please.  This large group had separated into a group of 17 and a group of 6 on opposite ends of the pond.

After feeding Murphy, I take him for a walk out back.  He howled.  He crouched down as if he was going to attack.  Then he gave 3 more howls.  The group of 17 began flapping their wings and took off.  I noticed the 6 geese that were left over on the other side of the pond.  They apparently did not pay much attention to their friends leaving.  So I ask Murphy if he wants to get those last stragglers.   He gives me that look that says - yeah, lemme at 'em.  We start to run around the edge of the pond.  The remaining geese start to get anxious.  Honking ensues and they begin to move in the opposite direction as we make our way closer.  Two howls and the remainder of the geese take off.

The neighbors come out applauding.  Murphy, we knew that barking would be good for something.

But the next day a new group descends onto the pond.  A small group of about 14 geese.  We wait until the afternoon to go for round two.  This time we had a little help.  Since the neighbors had noticed how well Murphy had done yesterday, there was another dog, Muffin, already out walking around the pond.  So these geese were already a little on edge - moving in the opposite direction of where Muffin was.  Murphy makes his way outside giving a few barks.  These geese seem less intimidated.  Muffin moves around to our side of the pond and all of a sudden the geese make a beeline to the opposite side of the pond.  We leave them for few minutes.  Then we walk, Murph dog being very interested, towards the new goose position.  I imitate a howl and the geese all turn their heads at me.  One even stands on a rock and starts flapping his wings like get out of here girl.  But it was just enough to set Murphy off into his stance and three long howls.  Bye bye Geese.

It was so great to Murphy in action.  I've never really seen a dog doing anything remotely close to what they are bred for except on television.  It was exhilarating.  I almost wish I could take a class on how to give them commands.  I think Murphy would seriously enjoy doing that sort of work.  It really isn't something I would expect Silvio to be able to do.  But I love my Silvio.  It was just a special time with me and Murphy.

Day 206 - A Wedding and A Baptism

I just returned from my last trip of the summer.  Maybe even for the whole year unless I work out something for the holidays.  Back to the recap.

I headed back to NJ for a very old family friends' wedding.  The day was absolutely gorgeous.  Given the fact that it is hot everywhere this year, the bride and groom lucked out and got a day with very little humidity and no blistering sun.  The colors were great.  I never would have thought of black and yellow.  But it was perfect.  The ceremony was sweet.  It reminded me of my wedding.  It was not so long ago.  I missed Andy even more.  But you can't cry at a wedding because you miss your husband.  So I dialed on the charm and took out the camera.  It was great to be back home with family and with friends who are so much like family.  There was dancing, food, drinks, and lots of fun.

Then that very next day we all trekked out for my goddaughter's christening.  It was such a personal ceremony.  I am so glad that I get a chance to be part of this little one's life.  I may be far away - which is a pain *thanks army* - but she is always in my heart.

My only wish really - to be closer to all the people that I love so much.

       

Day 200

Go us!!!  200 days since Andrew has deployed.  Only about 5 more months to go.  Silvio and I can make it easy.  Why? 

Because starting next month, school kicks in.  The days and the weeks fly by.  I will try to be a bit more active with after - school activities.  Root on my students in whatever they are doing.

I will attend cooking classes at our local grocery store.  I am super excited about this.  It may only be 2 times a month but I am sure I will have some yummy tidbits to disperse to everyone.

I will be trying to complete my knitting project - it went on hold as we hit the summer.

I will spend some time trying to learn a new language.

Other big news -

I completed Lego Harry Potter.  Well, sort of.  I managed to complete all the stages, but I have not unlocked all the characters, spells or other neat stuff.  The game tells me I have 50% complete.  Go me.

Stay Cool!

Day 198

Just some random thoughts for today.

I started to get to work for the upcoming school year.  Started is the important word.  Updated my gradebook, expectations and policies, and signed up for wikispaces.  I think a couple of weeks is more than enough time to get it up and running.  I feel like I can do it now.  I'm ready to work - or more aptly stated - get to work.

I learned something while reading What Einstein Told His Cook.  Ever wonder how M&M's melt in your mouth and not in your hand?  While at room temperature the chocolate is nice and hard.  It melts in your mouth because the fat in the chocolate will melt at just below your body temperature.  How crazy is that?  You know if my chemistry course at school was more like Cooking Chemistry.  I would have loved it.

Acura came out with a new commercial.  See below:
Reminds me of my physics research project.  Ah the old college days.

Day 197 - A Day for the Dogs

For the Weener dogs, that is.  Silvio and I invaded went behind enemy lines to check out the Weenie Dog Races.

Silvio was so happy to get outside.  He could hardly contain himself.  All eyes were on him.  Everyone was so surprised to see a pug dog.  Silvio got lovin' from all corners - little kids, big kids, adults, grandparents, and even the Weener dogs!

              

Silvio participated in the Mutt Strut.  Sorry no pictures because Mom took the walk with him.  After all that OOOing and AHHHing, we needed to find a spot to watch the exciting races.  Silvio thought this spot was perfect.


Always thinking ahead that dog.  We had such a fun day, but it started to get really hot.  Even though we wanted to stay for the contests (biggest, smallest, best dressed), we decided to hightail it out of there.  Tail...hahah.

I wonder if Silvio will have made it onto any news or radio station websites.  Lots of people around taking lots of pictures.

Day 194 - Cause it is never to early to think about your birthday or Christmas...

or another wonderful title:
How Not to prepare a new course for the upcoming school year.

For some reason I can not peel myself away from my personal computer to work on my school computer.  In all honesty, I have a month to start prepping for a totally new course that I will be teaching next year.  Thank goodness, I have all my geometry work from last year.  I just need to edit it, because these students might actually do the work out of their textbooks this year.  If they actually do homework, I might actually have things to discuss with them rather than blank stares for a majority of the day.

Anyway back to the task at hand.  It is just about 5 weeks from my birthday - too bad it does not actually fall on Labor Day then it would seem like a holiday.  Not far down the road is Christmas, yikes.  There do happen to be some items that I would love to have - in no particular order:
  • A new kitchen faucet.  When Andy is home he does most of the washing but I do help now and again.  The faucet the builder's installed is totally useless.  It is only 3 inches above the sink - so no tall pots and pans fit.   Plus the reach is less than 5 inches.  So I can only reach a portion of whatever needs to be clean.  Would totally love a faucet like this Gerber one.  It has a higher clearance- hurray for the sauce pot fitting in the sink and a detachable hose so I can get those hard to reach places.  Only major issue - I have no idea how to install one.  But it would totally make my day.
  • A different camera case.  Don't get me wrong I love my Lowepro.  Simple fact is - with only one strap, I tend to get some massive shoulder/back issues when I carry it all day - like I did in Disney.  My solution - a Lowepro beltpack.  Okay, so it looks a lot like a fanny pack.  Sue me.  It won't weigh down my shoulders and back.  Plus I like to think my hips can handle that sort of weight so it would be a win win situation.
  • My neighbors to grow a lawn.  It just isn't pretty to look at.
  • EDIT (I totally forgot this): A large 9 or 13 qt Le Creuset pot.  I would love to try making sauce in it.  I'll leave it at that right now.  If someone wanted to replace my entire cooking set with Le Creuset cook and bake ware, I would be in heaven.  Any takers???
  • For the hubby to come home, that would be an awesome birthday present.  Not going to happen though.
  • An Ipad - with the new OS4 loaded on it.  Why?  So I am not playing my fun games on my Iphone and using up all of it's juice.  Two, I love books - but we literally have no more bookshelf space.  It isn't my fault that one whole shelf is filled with 3 copies of Harry Potter (hardback, softcover, and UK version).  The others are filled with childhood and my other favorite books.  No space for those great beach-y reads.  Plus, I then have to sell them back due to the lack of space - even if i would think about keeping them.  I think a great idea would be to have another library of books on the ipad for vacations and such.  Plus, ebooks are cheaper than buying hardcover new books.  Lastly, I would like a little portability.  I hate being chained into the office to be online.
  • Both a 5 inch and 7 inch Santoku Knife.  I think this would be great for our knife collection - there are really only 3 knives that I use on a consistent basis.  The rest are dead to me.  Plus, we don't really have a cutlery set.  We just have a bunch of mixed up knives.

There you have it.  I successfully managed to stay away from my school computer for a good hour.

Day 193 - Juicy Genetics

Like the alliteration?  I guess it isn't quite alliteration in the spelling sense but phonetically yes.

Yes, I have juicy genetics.  Where in the heck am I taking this?  My skin has always had a way of calling mosquitoes to it.  When I was younger, it was not a big deal.  Yes I got lots of bug bites but nothing to serious.  But I have noticed since I moved to South Carolina four years ago this "situation" has become increasingly worse.  This summer has been horrible.  I stayed out late for a July 4th barbeque and the next morning awoke to a myriad of bites ranging in size from tiny to nearly 3 inches in diameter.  Besides the fact that I wanted to scratch them like crazy the larger ones are hot to touch and somewhat painful.  Solarcaine is mildly helpful - combating the heat with cooling effects - but for the large "welts" it needs to be applied almost every hour and half to even get me to stop thinking about wanting to rip part of my skin off my body.

I managed to get over this happening only to stupidly walk Silvio late one evening in shorts.  Bingo - yesterday the welts appeared.  Seeing as I didn't learn my lesson before, I put Solarcaine on the irritated areas before bed.  Needless to say, someone did not sleep well.  Today, as the welts seemed to get larger, I decided on a new plan of attack.  Enter Lanacane.  Almost immediately, that tingling need to scratch my legs off was gone.  More surprisingly, it has lasted nearly 10 hours and seemed to reduce some of the swelling.  It did not however take away the heat.  But who cares if I am not scratching every three seconds.

What have we learned: For the rest of the summer, it appears I must now walk Silvio clothed from head to toe to avoid bug bites.  This should be so much fun!!!  Then slather on the Lanacane to stop the itching.  Finally, I am the biggest baby ever!

Other news:  It has been raining since about 5:30 this evening.  I am going to be pissed off if my neighbor tries to blame tomorrow's mudpit on my yard.

Day 192 - Lawn Maintenance Mayhem

Long story short - we have spent the past year desperately trying to grow a meaningful lawn without forking over thousands of dollars for sod.  Right now we have a lawn that some would say is nice - it still has patches of grass-less space.  But if you look from far away, it does not look half bad.

According to our landscape professionals, in normal weather we would only need about 30 minutes of watering twice a week.  Unfortunately this is not normal weather and the grass minimally needs about one hour's worth of water 3 times a week.  Now watering for an hour is silly - the ground saturates to quickly and will not absorb the water it so desperately needs.  To combat this problem and still get an hour's worth of water, we have set our cycle of zones to run twice.  It runs through zone 1 - 5, and about a half hour after zone 5 finishes, the whole thing starts over again.  All this is done early in the morning while it is still cool (who calls nearly 80 degree weather cool at 2 am?) so that the grass can grow deep roots and suck up as much water as possible.

Enter the only true neighbor we have.  They moved in about 9 months ago.  We have had our sprinkler and drainage plan going since they have moved in.  This weekend though our lawn maintenance is no longer OK.  Our neighbor's lot has NO grass, it barely has weeds.  It is - for all intents and purposes a large mud pit.  They are trying to get grass growing in their lot and now it is our issue that their dirt is "wet" and they can't get the grass to grow.  Without pointing out the obvious facts, trying to get grass to germinate in 90+ degree weather is nigh impossible (we tried last summer), the fact I have no control over when it rains and your "yard" becomes a mudbath, and I can't control the wind so that it doesn''t blow some of the water onto your lot, I tried very hard to be civil.  I tried to explain how I understood what was happening - we had the same issue - we live on a hill.  If it rains, where is this dirt supposed to go except down the hill?  I said I would check with our lawn care people about what if anything we can do.

Enter lawn care guy.  He confirmed the fact that yes, we do live on a hill so any sort of water is going to drain down the hill through the neighbor's lot.  There is almost nothing they can do to change that fact.  He then proceeded to say - we can't not water your lawn.  If we stop watering, we have dead grass, which means nothing is holding the dirt in place, which means more mud in the neighbors lot.  He checked the sprinkler heads, which are in order and the program, which is appropriate for the weather we have been having.  The only thing he said we could do is reduce the percentage of water coming out of the heads by 25%.  So we made the adjustment and after a week I need to check back in with him.

Now, I have to inform the neighbors of what I am doing to HELP their situation.  On one level, I am sympathetic.  I know how hard it is to grow the grass - we are still in that process.   But it isn't our fault that our neighbor's are unable to get their grass to germinate.  At what point do I throw my hands up and say I've done all I have done???  Personally - being the mean person I am, I think adjusting my already minimal watering scheme (I don't even water every day of the week) is more than enough.  We didn't have any neighbors come out and help our lawn situation.  Neither has anyone else in the development - even the people at the bottom of the hill who bit the bullet and sodded their entire lot to stop the mud movement.

I refuse to believe that their mud issue is totally our sprinkler issue.  It has been fine for the past 9 months - why now?  My personal belief is that the city is sending them nasty letters, which by the way - we got and had to deal with as well.  Other people in the development have as well.  Their code violation is that the city requires you have a lawn in by a year of residing in your home.

If it isn't clear, this whole situation is bugging the living daylights out of me.  I find it hard to be in the house and try to prepare for the next school year with this hanging over my head.  I want to have the confidence that I will handle it civilly and not become a total *itch.  At what point can I say I have done all I can to help your situation but there is nothing else I can do about it.  Neighbors - you need to deal with your problem yourselves - we didn't have any help and we have been more than generous.

Ugh, rock and hard place.  But at least yesterday and today I reorganized all the stuff in 2 closets, a desk, and 2 nightstands.  Here's to hoping I can do some brain work tomorrow, if not, I'm not sure what else is left in this house to clean or organize.

Day 190

Now, I am not the first one to run around and flaunt my Roman Catholicism.  But I went to Mass today.  It felt good and added bonus I thought the Gospel reading was really a message for me.  Even better the Gospel was only 5 verses long.  So what touched me?  Well, here is the reading -

Now as they went on their way, he entered a village; and a woman named Martha received him into her house.  And she had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord's feet and listened to his teaching. But Martha was distracted with much serving; and she went to him and said, "Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to help me." But the Lord answered her, "Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things; one thing is needful. Mary has chosen the good portion, which shall not be taken away from her."

Besides that fact then when I heard it, the priest said "Martha, Martha" as if he was saying Marsha Marsha Marsha from the Brady Bunch, i feel that I am anxious and troubled.  I am constantly running around to make sure things are ready to go.  Even more so during this deployment.  I feel that the running of the household is creating a wave of insanity in me.  I need to make time to just rest.  Relax.   Maybe is Jesus was more hip he would say Chill-ax Martha.  Don't worry so much.

So what am I going to do about it.  Well, knowing me - I will constantly have vexations about anything and everything.  But I need to make sure that I make some time each day to just chill out.  Lately this has been occurring in the evening while I play Lego Harry Potter (trust me my summer days have been filled with lots of cleaning, reorganizing and then reorganizing some more).  I just need to carry this attitude through the school year.  Just stop doing work in the evening and Chill Out!

HAHA  see how long that lasts.

Day 188

I will not apologize for my lack of updates this time.  My weirdness about being secure on the internet won this bout.  There were no posts because Silvio and I went on our massive roadtrip.  We would like to thank all of our friends and family for taking time out of their schedules and let us invade their homes.  We are so grateful for your kindness.

Some things we learned on our road trip:
  • Fort Leonard Wood really should be named Fort Lost-in-the-Woods.
  • It is baby season.  Congratulations Ladies!
  • Going on a distillery tour in 90+ degree heat/humidity does not make bourbon taste any better.
  • Silvio is not at all an interesting road trip buddy.  He just falls asleep the whole time.
  • Toy Story 3 in 3D was an intense movie.  I am serious.
  • I wouldn't mind moving back to South Carolina - the beaches, the people...
  • It doesn't matter what shoes I wear, I will manage to injure my feet.
  • After going through a bunch of stuff from my parents move, I really did save some odd, sentimental, and totally hilarious stuff from when I was younger.
  • I am not a fan of Nestle fruit flavored water.
  • My in-laws are really kind people, but they have some wacky kitties.
  • I love taking pictures of butterflies.
  • Joey Fatone (NSync) is actually a decent actor.
  • Silvio and Anthony love cupcakes.  Anthony likes to hold them and Silvio likes to eat them.
  • Our country is amazing and beautiful.  It is too darn bad I can't drive and take fancy pictures at the same time.
  • Being back home in Kansas, really isn't all that bad.

I think that sums it all up.  I did learn that it would be super awesome if my car could act like a huge telephone.  So we are going to get that situation fixed.  Then I can talk to people while I'm driving.  Super excited about that.

Other than that - we have past the half way mark and hopefully only have about 5 more months to go.  Yippee!!  Unfortunately I only have about a month left to prep for the start of school next year.  Keep your fingers crossed.